One of the questions we are often asked is ‘How can we make the words we use in church more inclusive for everyone?’
Speaking & singing to God
So we’ve gathered here some beautiful prayers, services, poems and songs (which some churches call ‘liturgy’) – our Open Table communities have found these to be inclusive and affirming.
Some of these resources have been created with LGBTQIA+ people very much in mind – while some is even more widely accepting and welcoming. We find it encouraging and affirming that there is so much to choose from.
Please browse here to find pieces that give you personal strength and encouragement. Or pick and choose what you want to use as you plan for services where two or more are gathered together.
Watch this space:
- Our YouTube channel has playlists of our online worship services, songs for worship, and songs for Christmas. You are more than welcome to use any of these in your services – please credit Open Table Network.
- We are beginning to explore offering training in inclusive worship – Sign up for our e-news to find our first when this is available.
If you have found other resources you would recommend to others, please contact us and we’ll look at adding them to this page.
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Inclusive worship resources:
- Common Hymnal
- Dorothy McRae-McMahon, Various publications
- Gender Inclusive Language & Worship by Adrian Thatcher, Modern Church
- Holytivity
- Inclusive Church
- Iona Community
- Janet Morley, All Desires known
- June Boyce-Tilman, A Rainbow To Heaven
- Methodist Church Inclusive Language Guide
- Reverend Ally’s hymns
- re:Worship
- Sacredise
- Sacred music by women composers
- Seekers Church
- Spacious Faith
- Steven Shakespeare: Prayers for an Inclusive Church and The Earth Cries Glory
- Sunday Scriptures for Reading Aloud
- Women and the Church
- WorshipWords (including services written especially for Open Table – see below)
“Using the language that individuals use for themselves shows that we care as a Church and that we affirm them as a child of God.”
— Methodist Inclusive Language Guide
LGBTQIA+ focus
- A love song we sing back to God – The words we use at Open Table by Warren Hartley, Open Table Liverpool
- WorshipWords: Services written especially for Open Table
- Alex Clare-Young, First Love Yourself: A reflection & resources for Valentine’s Day
- Alex Clare-Young, Naming, Honouring, Celebrating: Worship resources for International Trans Day of Visibility
- Alex Clare-Young, Stones and bread, mourning and joy: Resources for Trans Day of Remembrance
- Alex & Jo Clare-Young ed. Grace like glitter: Resources for Pride
- enfleshed: spiritual resources for collective liberation
- Geoffrey Duncan, Courage to Love: An Anthology of Inclusive Worship Material & other books
- ReconcilingWorks: Worship, liturgy and scripture resources
- Singing from the Lectionary: Songs and music to welcome LGBTQIA+ people into the church
- The Hymn Society: Songs for the holy other
- Queer Grace: Language in worship
- Qspirit: promotes LGBTQ spirituality
“Using non-traditional language for God in worship can take many different forms. Some churches choose to use ‘inclusive’ language for God – not using genders, gendered pronouns, or specifically gendered metaphors for God. Others choose to use multiple images and metaphors for God, including understandings of God as both male and female. This is often called ‘expansive’ language. Language that expands beyond God as a single gender is also sometimes called ‘gender-neutral’ or ‘genderless.’”
— How do we talk about God in worship? queergrace.com